Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also fine. Today I’m going to talk about a piece of Media (book, movie, song) that changed my perception of world. Let’s talk about it.

Recently I have started reading a book and it is called the art of persuasion. The writer actually suggests that we should try to persuade people by our positive persuasion skill instead of making any arguments or any impression that the other person doesn’t like me. It would rather create a positive perception of me in that other person. And how are we going to do that question mark the simplistic answer is that we should try to use our positive persuasion through our speaking skill our gestures and throw our way of talking by which someone can be attracted to us. And that can help us to create a good network where we can actually create a positive connections among people.

The authors way of thinking has inspired me to try to use positive persuasion to impress people so that I don’t have to go through any negative experiences full stop and I recently started working on it so that I can create a positive impression of me on other people. It actually saves a lot of time and energy.

Let me give you some examples, recently I have been charged illegally by Swapfiet for no reason even though my contract ended already with them. Yet PayPal kept the connection with the company they could grab the money from me. So instead of getting hyper about the situation or making any scene out of it. What I tried to do is to create a positive impression on that situation. I mailed the customer service of Swapfiet and impressed them by positive persuasion. They returned me the money asap.

Now some people might say why I didn’t show anger or behaved well in this scenario. It’s simply because I want to do create a positive vibe of me and at the same time I am using my communication skill in a proper manner where I can persuade people.

Not just that I have also similar scenario with my health insurance where I have been charged for no reason. So rather than going on any hot debate, and rough judgement on them, I’m trying to be very positive and trying to be the gentlest version of me for which they might admire my approach to them. It actually works quite well. And I think you can also try that.

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