What is something you wish you could tell your 20-year-old self?
Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I’m going to talk about something I wish I could tell my 20 years old self. Now I’m going to write about it. So, let’s deep dive into it.
When I was 20 years old, I was so rushed, confused and inconsistent. Because I was not sure where my life was going . And there was barely anyone who could guide me through my life. My father died when I was 17 years old. So there was barely anyone to guide me through my journey. It was like I was all alone in my journey and no one was around to guide me. I had to go through a lot of struggles and yes, I’m still struggling. And now I know the reasons why. Because I understood that I am not focused,consistent and disciplined enough.
So every time I think of my previous self, I always try to tell my previous self that you could have been more focused I’m consistent and things would have been much more easier for me right now. So why are these three things important for me?
Has anyone heard of trinity of principles? It’s a way of dealing your actions your life or anything that you are working one can be progressed through three principles. And that’s why I choose consistency, Focus, and discipline.
So what does these principles do?
They actually help you to understand in which direction you should go and how you can succeed. Discipline helps you to organize yourself. No matter how messy your life is how tough it is to come out of your comfort zone, is necessary that you understand discipline is the key to form your life in a perfect shape. So if you think you cannot make it, try to organize things in a more disciplined way. You cannot organize everything all in one but step by step. And that will shape you and make you ready for your upcoming struggles.
Consistency is important because you got to show up no matter how tough things become. And you have to work constantly on one Project. If you just fail and move to another project that wouldn’t bring you success. That would lead you to another failure. So instead of failing in different things you can focus on failing in one subject so that in future you can succeed on that particular thing and trust me that success would be huge. That could make you someone very popular and recognized enough. That’s why consistency is important.
It’s not that consistency is important for your career but also for your relationships. If you can give consistent effort in your relationship with your girlfriend, it might lead you to a fruitful marriage that you could never think of.
And last but not least, focus is very very important. When you are not focused enough, you just roam and roam like a radarless boat. You need to focus so that you understand yourself more and keep upgrading yourself constantly. That makes you a hardworking genius who knows himself and builds you up a tough man to beat.
And yes, now it’s impossible to go back to my previous self our previous life and so what I do right now is that I always tell myself that I was consistent, focused and disciplined. I assure myself that I had this three qualities when I was 20 years old. It gives me an assurance that here I was in the right track and I am in the right track and I will be in the right track.
Thank you for reading my blog. I really appreciate it. I hope you have a nice day.
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