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  • Healthy relationship boundaries

    Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships.

    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing fine. Today I’m going to talk about some healthy relationship boundaries that I maintain. Let’s dive deep into it from a man’s perspective.

    Healthy relationship boundaries are important. They are like fences around the house which protects from unnecessary chaos so that you could protect your peace. And if your relationship is not based on your peace and trust me it is going to create a lot of Chaos. And I have been through all of it. So here are some of the advices I can give you.

    1. When and women speaks, you got to listen. You got to listen very calmly. You don’t argue back with her. Trust me it will solve 90% of your problems. Women needs a good listener. When you listen to her with a calm nature and understanding, I highly doubt she would even argue with you. You would slowly become a best friend and a partner at the same time.

    2. Learn to say no when things become toxic. I had a relationship previously with a girl who had barely any healthy border lines. She was a complete chaos. He brought chaos from the outside our relationship and put it in between us. And I gently reminded her of those things that what she was bringing within the relationship. Yet she barely cared about it . Day by day the relationship became toxic and I had no option but to break up with her.

    3. Learn to know when to cut off the relationship. With that girl, I told her to break up, because things were not working. She felt so insulted that she wanted to take revenge on me. She was agreeing to everything  to show me that the relationship is working . Trust me it wasn’t. And by the name of it what she was doing, she cut me off from all my friends and family. She was talking ill to my mother about me . By the name of self development, she told me to quit all the social networks. she didn’t just stop there. I could sense her intention to destroy me. I told her to end the relationship peacefully and respectfully so that no party is harmed or remains ashamed of it. She didn’t listen to it and everything became chaotic. And I had no options but to cut off her.

    4. Never bring a third person. It’s the most dangerous thing to do. Instead it is important to solve the problems within yourselves. When you have a hot debate with your partner, it is necessary that both the parties keep the distance for a while. Until you become calm. When you guys are calm, you come close to each other. You discuss the things. What’s working and what’s not working. You don’t bring third person in it.

    5. It is really important to understand your partner. For example, my recent partner is very shy and introvert. She cares a lot about her privacy. I sometimes give a nudge that she needs to open herself. It’s not that she doesn’t want to but she cannot . So I have to be very patient with her no matter what. I help her to be more open to me by listening to her and by being supportive. It’s not that I have to put a lot of money in it but by being there for her when she is struggling.

    6.Defend and respect your partners dignity. When you find out someone is talking ill about your partner, you got to defend it no matter what. That’s a must. If you can’t keep her dignity, there’s no point in keeping that relationship.

    7. Accountability is another factor that you must keep in your mind. It is really important that both the partners are accountable. If the partner is not accountable enough, you got to express it to her. If she works on it that means she really loves you. She wouldn’t argue about the problems you are facing.

    8. Never bring up the things that bothers your partner. It is a must in your relationship. If you don’t maintain this that means you don’t respect the relationship. Instead you focus on yourself more than the relationship.

    9.  Try to communicate more and opening yourself up. It is the best way to building up a relationship. I always talk about the issues that I go through and the past that traumatizes me. It is necessary to bring it up to understand whether my partner really cares about me or not and she is gentle about it. Same goes for her as well. When she brings issues about her past, I listen it to it, and I give my opinion on it what wae wrong in that relationship. I don’t judge her, I don’t brag these issues with her when we have fights. It is because these talks are not to use it as weapons to each other.

    10. Always be the cheerleader of your partner. Whenever she is thinking off doing something, be positiv about that and suggest what she can do. That creates a safe space for both. In this way, you build a safe guard for her and she becomes more loyal to you.

    11. Nowadays I hear a lot of men talking about the masculine energy in woman or feminism. Stop complaining right now. Instead understand her needs. When you start understanding her needs and bringing her comfort especially emotionally, she will automatically stop bringing these things to you.  The walls automatically dissolves when you build up emotional safety for her.

    12. Do some spiritual practices with her. For instance I chant mantras with my partner. We believe that the same spiritual frequency will keep us bonded and grounded. And therefore we do it together. Ever since we started it, we barely stopped. And it works for us both.

    13. Always remember that she is the Boss. It’s not because she is dominant or controlling. It is important for you to surrender to her unless and until she is narcissistic or a psycho. Because women are emotionally intelligent. That’s why it is necessary that you surrender to her.

    14. Try doing something together see how well you bond with each other. Can you be flexible enough to make a team work? If it works, that’s fantastic. That means you are very compatible with each other. If it doesn’t, rather avoid it. It’s not the end of the world.

    15. Always make time for each other, no matter what. Watch a series / movie she likes to watch. I do that too. It’s fun. Her choice and taste is good. If you don’t like it, simply tell that to her. If she is understanding enough, she will listen. But do something else then.

    16. Last but not least, your partner will be quite the opposite in most cases. So, learn to accept that. Things will become much easier for you.

    That’s all for today. I hope it helps. Thank you for reading my blog. Subscribing to my channel would be much appreciated. Thank you.

  • My opinion about colonizing the Mars

    Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?

    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I’m going to talk about if humans will ever colonize Mars and how life would there actually look like. Let’s deep dive into it

    Honestly speaking, the way human beings are progressing technologically and scientifically, it wouldn’t be impossible to colonize the Mars. I think we are becoming more advanced in exploring things whether it’s nanoparticles or is about space exploration. However, since the post specifically says about colonizing the Mars, it specifically meant to the west. I don’t think any other civilizations think this way.

    However, the West is advancing in a faster way in comparison to  China Russia and India. China might be a good competitor here but I don’t think still China is that advanced. So yeah the West has the first chance to colonize the Mars. That is not that predictable let’s see what happens.

    Speaking of colonizing the Mars, it would be really expensive to colonize it. Because we need a lot of resources to transfer there in order to survive there. The weather, atmosphere, gravity would be really rough. Apart from it,  food, livestocks and other things need to be exported there. So, it would not be that easy. Yet it would not be as smooth as Sci Fi movies as well.  And I don’t also think that the poor people or the middle class are moving there, it’s mostly the elites especially who are scientists, explorers and rich people will have the opportunity to be in the Mars.

    Apart from it, life there would be really tough full stop it would not be like any fantasy movie or any sci-fi movie but real real tough cause everything there need to be adjusted and scientifically improved. And as a human being we need to find out how to cope up there.

    Recently I have really comic. It was quite funny . It’s about Elon and Jeff On Mars (Two fictional characters). They depict a funny life in Mars of  Elon and Jeff. The two fictional characters go there so easily but cannot come back. It was such a funny comic. And I can definitely suggest you to read it.

    Guess what, who can tell who’s the first human being who went to Mars and who came back from there first?😉😉

    Thank you very much for reading my blog. Is it really nice if you follow me.

    Have a nice day!!

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    What’s your favorite meme?

  • Plant sharing like Germany

    What’s a cultural tradition from another country that you wish existed in yours?

    Hi everyone, good morning, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I am going to talk about a cultural tradition from another country that I wish existed in my country. Let’s deep dive into it.

    One of the best cultural tradition I have found out in Germany is that people like to share the plants they buy and the later found out that it is not useful for them anymore. They will keep the plants outside their house and write a note like “Zu Verschenken” which literally means to take away.

    Honestly speaking I like that idea very much and it’s definitely a good culture. I’m therefore I admire the Germans that they have some cool cultural traditions.

    The plants that you can see in this picture are all from takeaway. And I collect I’m gladly. I really appreciate this culture in Germany. And I wish people in our culture to adapt this idea. If not I will try to implant that in our culture.

    Thank you very much for reading my blog and I hope you have a nice day. Ciao.

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  • Rabindra Sangeet  – Dibosho Rojoni ami jeno kar

    What’s a song that always puts you in a good mood?

    Hi everyone.I hope you Guys are doing well. I’m also fine. thank you. Today I’m going to talk about the song that always puts me in a good mood.

    Let’s talk about it.

    When it comes to music, I’m very omnivorous. I like all kinds of music no matter what from pop to music without vocals. The only thing I cannot tolerate is the heavy metals because it’s too much for me. Please don’t get offended. It’s just that I’m incapable of listening to it. But my most favorite is Rabindra sangeet, which are Bangla classical songs.

    One of the best part of Bengali music from classical and folk music is that you can have romanticism and spiritualism at the same time simultaneously. The double knitting of the music makes it the best of a kind. That’s what makes me attracted to those musics. And you will not find anything like that in any other cultural music as far as I have noticed.

    Speaking of music and songs, one of my most favorite is “Dibosho rojoni ami jeno kar ashay ashay thaki”. It is a Bengali song. You will find different versions of it by different singers. If you want a good taste of music you can definitely hear it . An honestly speaking whenever I listen to this music I feel very good and very happy. I don’t know why I get a sense of purpose and meaning of my life.

    The song literally means something that my soul is waiting for someone. And that gives me a purpose in a life where I’m waiting for someone in order to be connected. And my soul is constantly looking for that connection. It sets a purpose in my life.

    Thank you everyone for reading my blog. I hope you liked it. feel free to subscribe me. Have a nice day!!!

  • The fear that I’ve overcome – facing interviews.

    What’s a fear you’ve overcome — and how did you do it?

    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also fine thank you.

    Today I am going to talk about fear that I’ve overcome. So let’s deep dive into it.

    Honestly saying, I have really fear of public speaking or facing any interviews. It makes me overwhelmed when I have an interview. I could literally feel the stress for two-three days before the interview day.

    So how did I overcome that fear?

    Let’s break this according to Trinity of principles. And the principles here are acknowledgement, acceptance and go through it. This theory will work for any type of fear so I am not writing just on the basis of that particular fear but fear in general.

    Acknowledgement: I overcame the fear through acknowledgement, the acknowledgement that the fear will always be there and I cannot do anything about it. So what I do is simply acknowledge it that fear is part of me. One of the best part of acknowledging your emotions are accepting your emotions makes you your own emotional validator. This is where the magic starts.

    Acceptance: now that you have acknowledged your fear, your body will start accepting aid as your emotion. So your body treats it like its own and accepts the fact that you can’t avoid it no matter what.  So, the body takes accountability of it’s emotion. A simple gesture of acceptance just makes the journey smooth to go through your fear. Now that you have accepted that this is your fear. Write how you feel about those fears and not every aspect of it. It helps you track your fear.

    Go through it: okay since you have accepted the fact that you have fear, you go through it. Within this you understand that you can transform your emotions. Cause it’s your emotion and you and your mind can control your emotions. Signal your brain that okay I understand you are going to fear but what I  need right now is a happy jolly face of mine, which shines like a star infront of the people. And trust me, I was literally smiling all the time during my last interview. A simple trick to tweek my emotions has just enabled me to smile during my fear. The interview was absolutely brilliant. I smoothly passed it. And my interviewer was really happy about it.

    So, this was the story of overcoming my fear. And the recent project right now I’m working on is to make myself visible to people. I need to overcome the feae of facing criticism and getting fame. I believe, I overcome it.

    How about yours? Feel free to share and let me know about my Trinity of principles.

    Thank you very much for reading the post I really appreciate your effort. Have a nice day.

  • Discipline, Authenticity and Self-image

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    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I am also fine. Thank you.

    Today I am going to write about the best way to build self confidence. You can apply so many approaches, yet it is better to have a specific pattern to self image building. I follow trinity of principles. So, let’s deep dive into it.

    Note: What is trinity of principles?

    “Trinity of principles is a concept based on three principles in order to simplify the process of action, so that the someone remains determined of his or her subjectivity. These are the priorities that someone cannot avoid in order to achieve greater success. It is a minimalistic approach to life.”

    Self confidence can be build through several skills and principles such as positive thinking, self caring, listening to motivational speaking, doing things that someone likes and so on and on. There is no single specific pattern to it. Therefore, I am going to explain the process with trinity of principles, I choose three fundamentals/ principles to achieve the result. and the three principles of my self confidence are discipline, authenticity and self-image.

    Discipline: Okay, let us say that you have a very low self confidence image of yourself. You are trying and trying but cannot get out of it, right? you are trapped in a loop of breaking down. Now how to come out of it? You seem helpless but you cannot get out of it. You would act like if you are stuck in a confused matrix and you cannot move out. Now what can you do? The simplest answer is to discipline yourself by recognizing the pattern and then restructuring it. You start to notice what are the things that are going wrong, and then the simplest solution to stop it is to discipline. Nothing more than that, nothing less than that. If you maintain the discipline for minimum 21 days, it will end up a habit and you will also notice that you are developing a new structure where you do not feel inferior anymore.

    Authenticity: As you have found out the problems, recognizing the problems is itself becomes a solution. When you develop discipline, you end up having a structure. and Now? Now what? Now it is time to be authentic, it is time to return to your authentic self. You might love the new you, yet I would suggest you still need to adjust values so that you remain authentic to yourself. Besides, Neither you nor your closest ones would be able to predict you. The unpredicted self would trouble you as much as your confused self used to.

    Self-image: Now comes the final part, and the crucial part of the principles, that your self image. Since you have been able to recognize your problems, your authentic self, it is now possible that you boost your self image. Now why self image is important?

    You can read the book, Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. The author used to be a plastic surgeon and later he became a self help author. He used to perform a lot of plastic surgeries to people. It took 21 days for them to establish a positive self image with their new identities and those who did not, the problem lied in their psychological self image. So, he suggested to have a positive self image. It boost your confident to 110%, if you just start believing you have a positive self image.

    Infact, he even gives an examples of a salesman who use to work as a salesman and he had a large nose, for which he was struggling to make any sales. He became incapable of making any sales, his boss was about to fire him. The salesman thought it was due to his large nose for which people did not like him. So, he went to Mr. Maltz inorder to seek help. So, Mr Maltz suggests him to practice positive self image at least for 21 days and forget that he has a large nose. Interestingly, it worked like magic. And he ends up becoming one of the best salesman.

    So, yes, having a positive self image boosts your self confidence.

    Thank you everyone for reading my post. I hope you like it. Feel free to subscribe it. That would be fantastic. Have a nice day.

  • Consistency, authenticity and trust

    How do you build loyal subscribers?

    Hello everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. I’m on the mission of increasing visibility. That’s why the question is very relevant to me. So here is the answer of my strategy.

    Building loyal subscribers is really important for growth of your social media, blog and so on. There is no alternative to loyal subscribers. It is really important that you have such supporters who would never betray you.

    So how would you build it?

    Eier zuli follow trinity (3) rules in every case of my life, weather it’s about my personal life or it’s about my work life. Distinity rules help me a lot meine kannst du organize things. Determined by the fundamental of everything.

    For example for my work I follow Trinity rule. First is fun, and then discipline and then respect. Always think of these three when you’re working. It makes things easier for you.

    Now for the loyal subscribers, the Trinity rule is consistency, authenticity, and trust.

    Why is that?

    Here’s the answer. What brings you loyalty? Simple, you have consistently show that you care and you are always there and therefore, these three things are really important.

    Consistency would show that you really care.

    Authenticity would bring trustworthiness.

    And trustworthy behavior deserves trust in return.

    Thank you for reading my blog. I hope you liked my answer . Feel free to subscribe my channel. thank you.

  • Proverb I think is completely wrong

    Share a proverb you think is completely wrong and make your case.

    “All is well that ends well.”

    Hello everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I’m going to talk about that proverb that I think it’s completely wrong.

    That is,

    “All is well that ends well.”

    It sounds very optimistic to hear but in real life that barey matters. Here is why,

    First of all, I don’t think no one wants to have a struggling life where at the end it seems or sounds happy. In my opinion, it doesn’t make sense to me, at all.

    There is no point in having a good ending, without having a fruitful beginning, or a meaningful life. The ending becomes very vague when someone lacks a sound beginning.

    In my opinion, it’s really important to have a good starting or at least have a meaningful starting. Without it, it becomes vague.