Life is getting complicated day by day especially when you are in your 30+ age. Everything gets super messy, yet you have to act very calm. You cannot react to everything and you have to be able to bypass a lot of things that must not bother you. Because you need a good life, right? So what are the things that really necessary for a good life? Let me tell you my story of having the important things in life.

To me, identity, discipline and ethics at the most important things for a good life. Let me clear it out to you.

I am a Bangladeshi living in Germany. And technically I have the duality of living two identity simultaneously and trust me it becomes hectic one you have to have 2 identity simultaneously. You cannot be completely I was Western man because then your relatives would barely recognize you. And they would think that you are not close to them anymore. Even sometimes my mother cannot even recognize me. So to my mother I have two be completely an mirroring image of my father and mine. Or else she doesn’t recognize me.

Modern life is very stressful and it is very chaotic honestly. Because you have to handle a lot of stress. And as a man you have to bypass your stress. No one deserves to get your stress not even your close ones? So what you’re gonna do? The simplest idea is to adapt the yogic life. As a Hindu, I mixed my yogic life with my Modern Life, so that I can get rid of the extra hectics and stress that I have to deal with. So in this case identity framework plays a really good role. Adjustment of identity help me to get over the things that I’m not supposed to digest.

So how do I discipline myself? I discipline myself as a Yogi. I found out that being a Yogi in the wild is Not greater than being a Yogi in the society. It’s way more important to be a Yogi in the society than to be a Yogi who left the society. And discipline is the key where you maintain your yogic life . and discipline only goes to yourself. You don’t burden others with disciplines. So what are the disciplines that I maintain? I do meditation every day. I go for a walk in the wild and meditate there for quite a time. It heals me so easily that I don’t need to care about other things. I don’t have to pass my stress to other people.

Some people are afraid of technology because the are in fear of losing their discipline, privacy because of technology. So what they prefer is a traditional life. I mixed my traditional life with technology so that I don’t have to go through all this drama. Ich sehe important that you assimilate with this views and then you adjust. What I did is just be careful about what I share in social media and internet. As I need to be careful about my privacy but I did is like I created a matrix where I share only one person of the truth in the internet and social media. The technology might have idea about me but it’s just 1% representable as me. And the rest 99% is unrecognizable to the internet and they cannot identify who I am. It’s not that I use any VPN or any other private secret services. It’s just that I know what I am and what I should keep as secret. It’s just that silly simple. Simply discipline.

I’m a man of ethics . I cannot go beyond my ethics. As a man it’s must that you have some common ethics you maintained. So what are my ethics? Be honest, Be loyal and be loving to you myself.  that is what always encourages me to have a good life. I never cheat never betray and never say something that would hurt myself. It’s a self-love where I don’t like to be cheated by myself. That is what pushing me towards a good life.

Thank you very much for reading my blog. How is your story? Let me know. Have a nice day!