Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I’m going to talk about the best advice I would give to someone younger than me. Let’s talk about it.

I think it is better not to give free advice to someone unless someone is asking. Honestly speaking, it doesn’t help at all. It seems very vague to me. I would rather suggest. I’d rather suggest someone younger to me to ask a single question in every step of their life they cross. And that question is, who are you?

By “who are you?”, I don’t mean to offend you by asking your position, status, etc etc etc. I am rather asking you the question in terms of how you identify yourself, what is your determined value that dictates your perception or your reality. If you can answer that question without any hesitation, that tells that you understand your path, you know who you are and who you are going to be.

Your status or your positions may not be very helpful in your life. I think it is rather your identity or your values that determines your success, and how confident you are of yourself. It determines that you are sure of your self-image.

Please do not remain confused about who you are. It is okay not to know your position or your status or your progres regarding life, career etc. It is absolutely not okay to be unaware of or remain confused of your identity. Therefore, it is important that you ask yourself one question and that would save a lot of time, energy and will create counter productivity.

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Hi everyone, I hope everyone is doing well. I am also doing well. Today I am going to talk about my inspiration. Let’s deep dive into it.

From my childhood, I had really problem with following someone as a mentor, guide or as an inspiration. By nature, I’m very skeptical and idealistic. Therefore, I always remain careful who I choose as mentor. Unfortunately I couldn’t even follow my father as my inspiration. Besides, in Hinduism, it is necessary that I follow a Guru so that I can develop spiritually.

Honestly speaking, I could not choose a Guru. Here’s why, my sister just brainwashed me to be his follower. She took me to a Guru, and he just made me his follower without giving me any prior knowledge . Therefore , I could not just accept him as Guru. Do you think it’s the end of the story? Nope. I’ve seen him feeding his followers Milk that was used to clean his feet. The other day I found him completely senseless due to smoking weed.

So, this was my experience, after that I never followed anyone. I rather follow my instinct and intuition. I think it’s better to do mistake and learn then accept someone as inspiration who’s faultier than me. That just absolutely makes no sense to me.

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Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well because I have slept very well today. Today I’m going to talk about my top tips to be successful life. Let’s deep dive down into it.

Success actually varies from person to person. What you define success is based on very much your individual preference based on your personality. As an idealistic or a perfectionist person, someone sees success in a very different manner than any average people out there. For instance, if someone is successful, an idealistic person or a perfectionist would always check three things. He would definitely check, if the person was authentic, growth oriented and ethical. No matter what you do, these three things are very important for an idealistic or a perfectionist.

Honestly speaking, if I get success by any means, I cannot be happy with it. My mind would constantly remind me that you have cheated if I were unethical. So, it is very important for me to have these qualities if I want to be successful. If you think you can be authentic, growth oriented and ethical, then these three principles can be your success asset.

If you think, you don’t need to be a perfectionist or an idealistic person, you don’t need these three principles. What can be your Trinity of principle then? Well, I would suggest you to find out yourself and know what are your three major principles. you can hold on to those three principles and it will lead you to success . I think you go for those qualities and that will make you authentic as well. 

Besides, growth oriented mind is also an important factor to get success. I would suggest you to be a long-term success oriented someone. You build up yourself step by step, brick by brick fundamentally and if any challenges come, you would never be broken. Because you have built your fundamentals very well.

And last but not least, always be ethical to yourself, no matter how much hardship you go through. That should be your purpose. If you cannot be ethical to yourself, you can never be ethical to any other person. In that case, success would seem very vague. And success would lose its value.

So, that’s all for today. Thank you very much for reading my post. Have a nice day.

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A simple yet very powerful skill to adapt. Why? It’s a life changer when you can say no to shitty things.

Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also  doing well except the fact that I cannot sleep very well at night. So I’m having a bit trouble. Other than that , I’m absolutely alright.

Today I’m going to talk about how I have grown this year. Honestly speaking I had a really tough time to get that question because it was really tough for me to understand how I have grown this year. So I had to think first and then answer the question. So let’s deep dive into it.

I have actually grown this year in terms of self-image. If I look back to my previous self I found out I was very low confident about me and myself esteem was pretty low. I couldn’t think that I deserve something better. And the most troubling thing was that I was fading at everything literally everything so you can understand how destroyed my self-image was.

Let me give you some examples how bad it was. I was thinking of low quality jobs from me so that I can simply survive. I couldn’t imagine that I deserve someone better in my life because my self-image was so broken. I couldn’t think of someone better in my life who will completely accept me who I am. although I had really good qualities and capabilities but I couldn’t imagine myself better. I was failing at literally everything. I was constantly applying for jobs and not getting any single positive results and that was kind of a hell of a thing that I have been through.

So how did that happen that myself image suddenly and drastically changed?

And the beginning of the year something has really changed to be honest. Although I was doing odd job at the beginning of the year, myself image was getting better because the job I was doing maybe an odd job but I was thinking to do it in a perfect way so that I feel good. Are in other words in order to perceive discipline in me, I was trying to be perfect. And it worked quite well. For example, I was doing an odd job in the warehouse first as a item picker and it took me around 8 days to get adjusted with that job. Where as it took me only three days to get adjusted in a lab where I work as a production helper full stop and I saw the results drastically changing.

Not just that I have become more carrier focused in my life which I never was. And I found out I can do something I can build something and I can actually be very multi working Guy. So when I understood that I’m really good at building my carrier it just boosted my self Image that okay I can at least survive by doing something.

If I imagine in previous years writing such a large blog, I couldn’t even think of it but what really changed is that I can now talk and write about a lot of things and for a longer time. It’s because I am thinking positive about myself constantly that is giving me the validation that I was taking from others.

Myself image was pretty bad because I was always seeking attention from others, seeking validations from others and I had a tendency of people pleasing. And I stopped all of them with the passage of time full stop and that’s why myself image has become far better, not just that I do not allow any kind of negative people around me. And that preserves my energy a lot. This is I think everything happened because of myself image has become better and I think I am very much valuable to the world.

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Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I’m going to talk about something I wish I could tell my 20 years old self. Now I’m going to write about it. So, let’s deep dive into it.

When I was 20 years old, I was so rushed, confused and inconsistent. Because I was not sure where my life was going . And there was barely anyone who could guide me through my life. My father died when I was 17 years old. So there was barely anyone to guide me through my journey. It was like I was all alone in my journey and no one was around to guide me. I had to go through a lot of struggles and yes, I’m still struggling. And now I know the reasons why. Because I understood that I am not focused,consistent and disciplined enough.

So every time I think of my previous self, I always try to tell my previous self that you could have been more focused I’m consistent and things would have been much more easier for me right now. So why are these three things important for me?

Has anyone heard of trinity of principles? It’s a way of dealing your actions your life or anything that you are working one can be progressed through three principles. And that’s why I choose consistency, Focus, and discipline.

So what does these principles do?

They actually help you to understand in which direction you should go and how you can succeed. Discipline helps you to organize yourself. No matter how messy your life is how tough it is to come out of your comfort zone, is necessary that you understand discipline is the key to form your life in a perfect shape. So if you think you cannot make it, try to organize things in a more disciplined way. You cannot organize everything all in one but step by step. And that will shape you and make you ready for your upcoming struggles.

Consistency is important because you got to show up no matter how tough things become. And you have to work constantly on one Project. If you just fail and move to another project that wouldn’t bring you success. That would lead you to another failure. So instead of failing in different things you can focus on failing in one subject so that in future you can succeed on that particular thing and trust me that success would be huge. That could make you someone very popular and recognized enough. That’s why consistency is important.

It’s not that consistency is important for your career but also for your relationships. If you can give consistent effort in your relationship with your girlfriend, it might lead you to a fruitful marriage that you could never think of.

And last but not least, focus is very very important. When you are not focused enough, you just roam and roam like a radarless boat. You need to focus so that you understand yourself more and keep upgrading yourself constantly. That makes you a hardworking genius who knows himself and builds you up a tough man to beat.

And yes, now it’s impossible to go back to my previous self our previous life and so what I do right now is that I always tell myself that I was consistent, focused and disciplined. I assure myself that I had this three qualities when I was 20 years old. It gives me an assurance that here I was in the right track and I am in the right track and I will be in the right track.

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