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  • Healthy relationship boundaries

    Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships.

    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing fine. Today I’m going to talk about some healthy relationship boundaries that I maintain. Let’s dive deep into it from a man’s perspective.

    Healthy relationship boundaries are important. They are like fences around the house which protects from unnecessary chaos so that you could protect your peace. And if your relationship is not based on your peace and trust me it is going to create a lot of Chaos. And I have been through all of it. So here are some of the advices I can give you.

    1. When and women speaks, you got to listen. You got to listen very calmly. You don’t argue back with her. Trust me it will solve 90% of your problems. Women needs a good listener. When you listen to her with a calm nature and understanding, I highly doubt she would even argue with you. You would slowly become a best friend and a partner at the same time.

    2. Learn to say no when things become toxic. I had a relationship previously with a girl who had barely any healthy border lines. She was a complete chaos. He brought chaos from the outside our relationship and put it in between us. And I gently reminded her of those things that what she was bringing within the relationship. Yet she barely cared about it . Day by day the relationship became toxic and I had no option but to break up with her.

    3. Learn to know when to cut off the relationship. With that girl, I told her to break up, because things were not working. She felt so insulted that she wanted to take revenge on me. She was agreeing to everything  to show me that the relationship is working . Trust me it wasn’t. And by the name of it what she was doing, she cut me off from all my friends and family. She was talking ill to my mother about me . By the name of self development, she told me to quit all the social networks. she didn’t just stop there. I could sense her intention to destroy me. I told her to end the relationship peacefully and respectfully so that no party is harmed or remains ashamed of it. She didn’t listen to it and everything became chaotic. And I had no options but to cut off her.

    4. Never bring a third person. It’s the most dangerous thing to do. Instead it is important to solve the problems within yourselves. When you have a hot debate with your partner, it is necessary that both the parties keep the distance for a while. Until you become calm. When you guys are calm, you come close to each other. You discuss the things. What’s working and what’s not working. You don’t bring third person in it.

    5. It is really important to understand your partner. For example, my recent partner is very shy and introvert. She cares a lot about her privacy. I sometimes give a nudge that she needs to open herself. It’s not that she doesn’t want to but she cannot . So I have to be very patient with her no matter what. I help her to be more open to me by listening to her and by being supportive. It’s not that I have to put a lot of money in it but by being there for her when she is struggling.

    6.Defend and respect your partners dignity. When you find out someone is talking ill about your partner, you got to defend it no matter what. That’s a must. If you can’t keep her dignity, there’s no point in keeping that relationship.

    7. Accountability is another factor that you must keep in your mind. It is really important that both the partners are accountable. If the partner is not accountable enough, you got to express it to her. If she works on it that means she really loves you. She wouldn’t argue about the problems you are facing.

    8. Never bring up the things that bothers your partner. It is a must in your relationship. If you don’t maintain this that means you don’t respect the relationship. Instead you focus on yourself more than the relationship.

    9.  Try to communicate more and opening yourself up. It is the best way to building up a relationship. I always talk about the issues that I go through and the past that traumatizes me. It is necessary to bring it up to understand whether my partner really cares about me or not and she is gentle about it. Same goes for her as well. When she brings issues about her past, I listen it to it, and I give my opinion on it what wae wrong in that relationship. I don’t judge her, I don’t brag these issues with her when we have fights. It is because these talks are not to use it as weapons to each other.

    10. Always be the cheerleader of your partner. Whenever she is thinking off doing something, be positiv about that and suggest what she can do. That creates a safe space for both. In this way, you build a safe guard for her and she becomes more loyal to you.

    11. Nowadays I hear a lot of men talking about the masculine energy in woman or feminism. Stop complaining right now. Instead understand her needs. When you start understanding her needs and bringing her comfort especially emotionally, she will automatically stop bringing these things to you.  The walls automatically dissolves when you build up emotional safety for her.

    12. Do some spiritual practices with her. For instance I chant mantras with my partner. We believe that the same spiritual frequency will keep us bonded and grounded. And therefore we do it together. Ever since we started it, we barely stopped. And it works for us both.

    13. Always remember that she is the Boss. It’s not because she is dominant or controlling. It is important for you to surrender to her unless and until she is narcissistic or a psycho. Because women are emotionally intelligent. That’s why it is necessary that you surrender to her.

    14. Try doing something together see how well you bond with each other. Can you be flexible enough to make a team work? If it works, that’s fantastic. That means you are very compatible with each other. If it doesn’t, rather avoid it. It’s not the end of the world.

    15. Always make time for each other, no matter what. Watch a series / movie she likes to watch. I do that too. It’s fun. Her choice and taste is good. If you don’t like it, simply tell that to her. If she is understanding enough, she will listen. But do something else then.

    16. Last but not least, your partner will be quite the opposite in most cases. So, learn to accept that. Things will become much easier for you.

    That’s all for today. I hope it helps. Thank you for reading my blog. Subscribing to my channel would be much appreciated. Thank you.

  • My opinion about colonizing the Mars

    Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?

    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I’m going to talk about if humans will ever colonize Mars and how life would there actually look like. Let’s deep dive into it

    Honestly speaking, the way human beings are progressing technologically and scientifically, it wouldn’t be impossible to colonize the Mars. I think we are becoming more advanced in exploring things whether it’s nanoparticles or is about space exploration. However, since the post specifically says about colonizing the Mars, it specifically meant to the west. I don’t think any other civilizations think this way.

    However, the West is advancing in a faster way in comparison to  China Russia and India. China might be a good competitor here but I don’t think still China is that advanced. So yeah the West has the first chance to colonize the Mars. That is not that predictable let’s see what happens.

    Speaking of colonizing the Mars, it would be really expensive to colonize it. Because we need a lot of resources to transfer there in order to survive there. The weather, atmosphere, gravity would be really rough. Apart from it,  food, livestocks and other things need to be exported there. So, it would not be that easy. Yet it would not be as smooth as Sci Fi movies as well.  And I don’t also think that the poor people or the middle class are moving there, it’s mostly the elites especially who are scientists, explorers and rich people will have the opportunity to be in the Mars.

    Apart from it, life there would be really tough full stop it would not be like any fantasy movie or any sci-fi movie but real real tough cause everything there need to be adjusted and scientifically improved. And as a human being we need to find out how to cope up there.

    Recently I have really comic. It was quite funny . It’s about Elon and Jeff On Mars (Two fictional characters). They depict a funny life in Mars of  Elon and Jeff. The two fictional characters go there so easily but cannot come back. It was such a funny comic. And I can definitely suggest you to read it.

    Guess what, who can tell who’s the first human being who went to Mars and who came back from there first?😉😉

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    Have a nice day!!

  • My favorite  meme

    What’s your favorite meme?

  • Plant sharing like Germany

    What’s a cultural tradition from another country that you wish existed in yours?

    Hi everyone, good morning, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also doing well. Today I am going to talk about a cultural tradition from another country that I wish existed in my country. Let’s deep dive into it.

    One of the best cultural tradition I have found out in Germany is that people like to share the plants they buy and the later found out that it is not useful for them anymore. They will keep the plants outside their house and write a note like “Zu Verschenken” which literally means to take away.

    Honestly speaking I like that idea very much and it’s definitely a good culture. I’m therefore I admire the Germans that they have some cool cultural traditions.

    The plants that you can see in this picture are all from takeaway. And I collect I’m gladly. I really appreciate this culture in Germany. And I wish people in our culture to adapt this idea. If not I will try to implant that in our culture.

    Thank you very much for reading my blog and I hope you have a nice day. Ciao.

  • What are the biggest mistakes people make when visiting your country?

  • Rabindra Sangeet  – Dibosho Rojoni ami jeno kar

    What’s a song that always puts you in a good mood?

    Hi everyone.I hope you Guys are doing well. I’m also fine. thank you. Today I’m going to talk about the song that always puts me in a good mood.

    Let’s talk about it.

    When it comes to music, I’m very omnivorous. I like all kinds of music no matter what from pop to music without vocals. The only thing I cannot tolerate is the heavy metals because it’s too much for me. Please don’t get offended. It’s just that I’m incapable of listening to it. But my most favorite is Rabindra sangeet, which are Bangla classical songs.

    One of the best part of Bengali music from classical and folk music is that you can have romanticism and spiritualism at the same time simultaneously. The double knitting of the music makes it the best of a kind. That’s what makes me attracted to those musics. And you will not find anything like that in any other cultural music as far as I have noticed.

    Speaking of music and songs, one of my most favorite is “Dibosho rojoni ami jeno kar ashay ashay thaki”. It is a Bengali song. You will find different versions of it by different singers. If you want a good taste of music you can definitely hear it . An honestly speaking whenever I listen to this music I feel very good and very happy. I don’t know why I get a sense of purpose and meaning of my life.

    The song literally means something that my soul is waiting for someone. And that gives me a purpose in a life where I’m waiting for someone in order to be connected. And my soul is constantly looking for that connection. It sets a purpose in my life.

    Thank you everyone for reading my blog. I hope you liked it. feel free to subscribe me. Have a nice day!!!

  • My Training as a Camp Director

    This page is dedicated to learning purpose only. The post was not created to do any harm to anyone or leak information. It is rather created to simply follow as a guide map. Thanks for the understanding.

    As a Camp Director things need to be kept in mind,

    1. A Phone with a slack account will be given to communicate.
    2. The first duty is to check the game box, as soon as the director reaches the camp destination.
    3. Always keep things listed and signed by the children, so that the director can keep a track of game box stuffs.
    4. Children will arrive at 2 P.M. The first thing to is to make a check in. Choose a place outside the camp where there is shadow and easily visibile.
    5. It is always better to schedule things earlier, especially the things children are going to do, so that the camp director and counsilors remain prepared.
    6. The talent show is a must at the last day of camping. Always check the weather. Keep a back up plan in order to deal with disappointment.

    Pre- Camp DOs and DON’T

    1. Important: Do Google Meet. Get to know each other, discuss  any questions that are mandatory and tell them how  you are going to manage the Camp.
    2. Discuss the planned schedule for the week, if finalized.
    3. Directors meeting with the office especially on Wednesday, Thursday, Friday before camp.
    4.  Review important information e.g. children with special needs and medical requirements.
    5. Review room allocations and information regarding the location.
    6. Always wear the Oskar t-shirt the first day and the last day of the meeting.
    7. Keep all the receipts related to your camp.
    8. I carry Oskar camp bags, a phone and wear an Oskar t-shirt.
    9. If I missed an ICE, regional Bahn due to DBˋs fault, my ticket still remains valid.

    Key aspects and tips to maintain in order to achieve greater success:

    1. Reward Children for their good manners.
    2. Observe every small details so that you have an opportunity to reward them.
    3. Word of the day: Introduce a new word to them, help them recognize the word. Help them construct a sentence.
    4. Suggest them what to do and what not to do. It helps them to be disciplined.
    5. Make them aware of what they are going to do all day long so that they remain physically prepared for what they are going to face. Keep the evening event as a surprise so that they do not get disappointed and then later not join.
    6. IMPORTANT: First Aid kits always go where the kids are. If they go to swimming, for example, the first aid tool will also be there.
    7. Whenever the camp decides to go somewhere, it is important to check if the safety is breached.
    8. Children must use helmets and seatbelts in the bus or while going somewhere else.
    9. Always buy tick remover and bug spray. It always good to have.
    10. Never advise Medikament.
    11. If there is an incident like someone having a period, talk to them about what they would prefer to have, inform the parents of the situation and ask them what they would recommend.
    12. Reward them for their team effort, cleaning effort, and suggest to them what they can do to make their experience better.
    13. If there are serious injuries, do not move them, let them be where they are.
    14.  In case, there is an emergency, inform the office, inform the parents.
    15. Get consent from the parents because there is a cost involved.
    16. Imp: Always observe the place, take good notes of what is available, get a good grab of taxi numbers, and the location. 
    17.  Put the money in the money box. Keep receipt of everything.
    18.  Tell the kids to name their phone so that I can have track of their phones. Put the important stuff in my room. No personal devices allowed. Suggest them a diary instead.
    19.  Inspect every room if there is anything broken so that you know everything is alright.
    20. Inform every small incident of accidents and broken things. Document everything with photos.

    Trinity of Principles

    1. Fun — Creating an environment where learning feels natural
      • Fun is not just entertainment; it is a strategic tool you use to keep children engaged and counselors motivated. As a Camp Director, you model how fun can coexist with structure.
      • You encourage counselors to use games, creativity, and positive energy to make English learning enjoyable.
      • You design a camp atmosphere where children feel safe to try, fail, laugh, and learn. You show that fun is not chaos — it’s a planned, intentional method to keep groups focused and happy.
    2. 2. Discipline — Providing structure that keeps everyone safe and confident
      • Your discipline is not strictness; it is clarity, consistency, and calm authority.
      • You set clear expectations for counselors: punctuality, supervision standards, communication, and professionalism.
      • You ensure children understand routines, boundaries, and consequences in a fair and predictable way.
      • You maintain discipline through organization, planning, and proactive problem‑solving, not through pressure.
      • Note: Your discipline gives the camp its backbone. It ensures safety, smooth transitions, and a sense of stability that children rely on — especially those who are anxious or away from home for the first time.
    3. Respect — The foundation of all interactions
      • Respect is the principle that shapes your leadership identity.
      • You treat counselors as partners, valuing their strengths and supporting them when challenges arise.
      • You model respectful communication with children: listening, validating feelings, and guiding behavior without humiliation or power struggles.
      • You create a culture where everyone — staff and children — feels seen, heard, and valued.
      • Note : Respect is also how you handle conflicts: calmly, privately, and with the goal of understanding rather than blaming.

    In conclusion, the role of a Camp Director demands a balance of preparation, awareness, and human-centered leadership. Every task — from checking the game box to documenting incidents, from planning schedules to managing emergencies — contributes to creating a safe, structured, and joyful environment for children and counselors alike. By staying organized, communicating clearly, and maintaining high safety standards, the director ensures that the camp runs smoothly and responsibly.

    At the heart of this work lies your Trinity of Principles: Fun, Discipline, and Respect. These values guide every decision, interaction, and routine. Fun keeps children motivated and engaged, discipline provides the structure they rely on, and respect builds trust within the entire camp community. When these principles work together, they create an atmosphere where learning feels natural, safety is prioritized, and every child feels valued.

    This guide is meant purely for learning and preparation. It serves as a roadmap to help future Camp Directors understand their responsibilities, uphold professional standards, and lead with confidence, compassion, and clarity.

  • The fear that I’ve overcome – facing interviews.

    What’s a fear you’ve overcome — and how did you do it?

    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m also fine thank you.

    Today I am going to talk about fear that I’ve overcome. So let’s deep dive into it.

    Honestly saying, I have really fear of public speaking or facing any interviews. It makes me overwhelmed when I have an interview. I could literally feel the stress for two-three days before the interview day.

    So how did I overcome that fear?

    Let’s break this according to Trinity of principles. And the principles here are acknowledgement, acceptance and go through it. This theory will work for any type of fear so I am not writing just on the basis of that particular fear but fear in general.

    Acknowledgement: I overcame the fear through acknowledgement, the acknowledgement that the fear will always be there and I cannot do anything about it. So what I do is simply acknowledge it that fear is part of me. One of the best part of acknowledging your emotions are accepting your emotions makes you your own emotional validator. This is where the magic starts.

    Acceptance: now that you have acknowledged your fear, your body will start accepting aid as your emotion. So your body treats it like its own and accepts the fact that you can’t avoid it no matter what.  So, the body takes accountability of it’s emotion. A simple gesture of acceptance just makes the journey smooth to go through your fear. Now that you have accepted that this is your fear. Write how you feel about those fears and not every aspect of it. It helps you track your fear.

    Go through it: okay since you have accepted the fact that you have fear, you go through it. Within this you understand that you can transform your emotions. Cause it’s your emotion and you and your mind can control your emotions. Signal your brain that okay I understand you are going to fear but what I  need right now is a happy jolly face of mine, which shines like a star infront of the people. And trust me, I was literally smiling all the time during my last interview. A simple trick to tweek my emotions has just enabled me to smile during my fear. The interview was absolutely brilliant. I smoothly passed it. And my interviewer was really happy about it.

    So, this was the story of overcoming my fear. And the recent project right now I’m working on is to make myself visible to people. I need to overcome the feae of facing criticism and getting fame. I believe, I overcome it.

    How about yours? Feel free to share and let me know about my Trinity of principles.

    Thank you very much for reading the post I really appreciate your effort. Have a nice day.

  • Podcast Episode: Selbstbild, Beziehungen Und Alltag

    Pip: Willkommen bei Srabonswelt — wo Sprichwörter hinterfragt, Seelenverbindungen erkundet und Koriandersamen zum Experiment werden.

    Mara: The Unknown hat in dieser Woche über persönliche Werte, Beziehungen, den eigenen Garten und eine ziemlich frustrierende Fahrraderfahrung geschrieben. Fangen wir mit dem an, was uns von innen heraus antreibt.

    Selbstbild und persönliche Überzeugungen

    Pip: Dieser Abschnitt dreht sich um eine grundlegende Frage: Wie bauen wir ein stabiles Selbstbild auf — und welche Überzeugungen helfen uns dabei, welche bremsen uns?

    Mara: Der Ausgangspunkt ist ein Sprichwort, das direkt angezweifelt wird. Die Kernthese lautet: “There is no point in having a good ending, without having a fruitful beginning, or a meaningful life.”

    Pip: Das ist eine echte Gegenposition zu “Ende gut, alles gut” — nicht nur ein Bauchgefühl, sondern ein Argument: Ein guter Abschluss ohne solide Grundlage bleibt vage.

    Mara: Genau das ist der Kern. Und dieser Gedanke — dass Anfänge zählen, nicht nur Ergebnisse — zieht sich weiter. Im Beitrag über Disziplin, Authentizität und Selbstbild wird ein konkretes Dreiprinzipien-Modell vorgestellt.

    Pip: Dreiundzwanzig Tage Disziplin, dann Authentizität, dann Selbstbild — klingt fast wie ein Rezept.

    Mara: Es stützt sich auf Maxwell Maltz und sein Buch Psycho-Cybernetics. Die Idee: Wer sein inneres Selbstbild nicht verändert, bleibt trotz äußerer Veränderungen stecken. Disziplin schafft Struktur, Authentizität verhindert Entfremdung, und ein positives Selbstbild gibt dem Ganzen Auftrieb.

    Mara: Dazu kommt der Beitrag über emotionale Intelligenz — mit der These, dass nicht künstliche, sondern emotionale Intelligenz die Menschheit voranbringt. Und Minimalismus als Haltung: nur das behalten, was wirklich zählt — materiell wie zwischenmenschlich.

    Pip: Weniger besitzen, mehr verstehen, sich selbst kennen — das ist eigentlich ein zusammenhängendes Programm.

    Mara: Und ein ehrliches dazu. Kommen wir zu dem, was uns mit anderen verbindet.

    Seelenverbindung und Vertrauen

    Pip: Hier geht es um Bindung — was macht eine Verbindung wirklich tragfähig, ob zu einem Menschen oder zu einem Publikum?

    Mara: Zum Thema Seelenverwandte heißt es: “A soulmate connection feels like this: A calm ‘I know you,’ effortless conversation, emotional safety, mutual effort, and a pull that’s both comforting and intense.”

    Pip: Das ist keine romantische Schwärmerei — das ist eine ziemlich präzise Beschreibung von dem, was stabile Nähe ausmacht.

    Mara: Und dieser Gedanke lässt sich direkt übertragen. Im Beitrag über Konsistenz, Authentizität und Vertrauen geht es darum, wie man loyale Leserinnen und Leser gewinnt — mit denselben drei Elementen: konsequent präsent sein, authentisch bleiben, Vertrauen verdienen.

    Pip: Seelenverbindung und Abonnentenbindung — selbe Logik, anderer Kontext.

    Mara: Weiter geht es ins Grüne.

    Garten als Experiment

    Pip: Nach innen und zwischen Menschen — jetzt nach draußen: in den Garten, wo Theorie auf Erde trifft.

    Mara: Die Pflanzen wurden ein Jahr lang im Überlebensmodus gehalten, ohne Erde, nur mit Wasser. Jetzt kommen sie in den Boden — Chili, Paprika, Koriander, Basilikum. Die Erwartung: “Their growth will be tremendous because I have kept them on survival mode for quite a while.”

    Pip: Überleben als Vorbereitung fürs Gedeihen — das kennt man ja auch von anderswo.

    Mara: Parallel dazu läuft Experiment 101: Koriandersamen aus einem lokalen indischen Laden werden auf ihre Keimfähigkeit getestet. Ergebnis noch offen — Fortsetzung folgt. Zum Abschluss noch ein Service-Check.

    Wenn der Service versagt

    Pip: Manchmal ist das Schlechteste an einem Tag nicht das Wetter, sondern der Kundendienst.

    Mara: Der Swapfiets-Beitrag ist eine detaillierte Bewertung: Das Fahrrad bekommt eine von fünf Sternen — schwer, unhandlich, Akkuprobleme im Winter. Aber der eigentliche Aufreger ist die Abrechnung: ein Monat extra nach Vertragsende, dann unerklärte Zusatzgebühren, und auf Beschwerden kam nur die Antwort, man könne nichts tun.

    Pip: “They can’t do anything about it” — das ist kein Kundenservice, das ist eine Abwehrstrategie.

    Mara: Genau das macht den Beitrag lesenswert: Er benennt konkret, was schiefgelaufen ist — und zieht eine klare Konsequenz.

    Pip: Sprichwörter hinterfragen, Seelenverwandte suchen, Koriander keimen lassen, schlechten Service benennen — das ist eine ziemlich vollständige Woche.

    Mara: Was mich beschäftigt: der rote Faden zwischen den Themen — Anfänge zählen, Authentizität trägt. Bis zum nächsten Mal.

  • Discipline, Authenticity and Self-image

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    Hi everyone, I hope you guys are doing well. I am also fine. Thank you.

    Today I am going to write about the best way to build self confidence. You can apply so many approaches, yet it is better to have a specific pattern to self image building. I follow trinity of principles. So, let’s deep dive into it.

    Note: What is trinity of principles?

    “Trinity of principles is a concept based on three principles in order to simplify the process of action, so that the someone remains determined of his or her subjectivity. These are the priorities that someone cannot avoid in order to achieve greater success. It is a minimalistic approach to life.”

    Self confidence can be build through several skills and principles such as positive thinking, self caring, listening to motivational speaking, doing things that someone likes and so on and on. There is no single specific pattern to it. Therefore, I am going to explain the process with trinity of principles, I choose three fundamentals/ principles to achieve the result. and the three principles of my self confidence are discipline, authenticity and self-image.

    Discipline: Okay, let us say that you have a very low self confidence image of yourself. You are trying and trying but cannot get out of it, right? you are trapped in a loop of breaking down. Now how to come out of it? You seem helpless but you cannot get out of it. You would act like if you are stuck in a confused matrix and you cannot move out. Now what can you do? The simplest answer is to discipline yourself by recognizing the pattern and then restructuring it. You start to notice what are the things that are going wrong, and then the simplest solution to stop it is to discipline. Nothing more than that, nothing less than that. If you maintain the discipline for minimum 21 days, it will end up a habit and you will also notice that you are developing a new structure where you do not feel inferior anymore.

    Authenticity: As you have found out the problems, recognizing the problems is itself becomes a solution. When you develop discipline, you end up having a structure. and Now? Now what? Now it is time to be authentic, it is time to return to your authentic self. You might love the new you, yet I would suggest you still need to adjust values so that you remain authentic to yourself. Besides, Neither you nor your closest ones would be able to predict you. The unpredicted self would trouble you as much as your confused self used to.

    Self-image: Now comes the final part, and the crucial part of the principles, that your self image. Since you have been able to recognize your problems, your authentic self, it is now possible that you boost your self image. Now why self image is important?

    You can read the book, Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. The author used to be a plastic surgeon and later he became a self help author. He used to perform a lot of plastic surgeries to people. It took 21 days for them to establish a positive self image with their new identities and those who did not, the problem lied in their psychological self image. So, he suggested to have a positive self image. It boost your confident to 110%, if you just start believing you have a positive self image.

    Infact, he even gives an examples of a salesman who use to work as a salesman and he had a large nose, for which he was struggling to make any sales. He became incapable of making any sales, his boss was about to fire him. The salesman thought it was due to his large nose for which people did not like him. So, he went to Mr. Maltz inorder to seek help. So, Mr Maltz suggests him to practice positive self image at least for 21 days and forget that he has a large nose. Interestingly, it worked like magic. And he ends up becoming one of the best salesman.

    So, yes, having a positive self image boosts your self confidence.

    Thank you everyone for reading my post. I hope you like it. Feel free to subscribe it. That would be fantastic. Have a nice day.